My refab wedding.

On the theme of the last poster, I add my own 2 cents. I am married too, but had the spectacular expensive wedding and would definitely do things differently. I believe my choices were mostly parent motivated and because I was (ahem)expecting, I don't believe I did what I truly wanted. So here is the disaster I would now create, all of which would be accented with Billie Holiday, Ella Fitzgerald and Cole Porter playing in the background. And champagne. Lots of champagne. And maybe chinese food. No boring wedding food, but a grand Chinese Buffet!The dress is a gorgeous vintage 1930 beauty, not the pouffy bowed and bedazzled monstrosity I somehow ended up with the first time. I think chinese lanterns are so "sigh" romantic.I would make it about love this time rather than form and necessity.The cake has sugar flowers on it, but they look so real and I love the little classic church instead of the gross warehouse style mega-church I did get married in. I think I would get married in the late summer this time, because I could actually pick the date instead of having to do it as quickly as possible. Ah, if I could only go redo some of those choices.